“You know how to have a good time but do you know how to have a bad time?”
My wife and I have the privilege of ministering to those in our congregation who are in the singles chapter of their lives. That’s one of the key points we make. In other words, it isn’t just about how you two get along, it’s also about how you do when you don’t either because of each other or due to the inevitable injustices of life.
We’re all messed up. In some ways or another and to varying extremes, we’re all messed up. All of us. And this world constantly tries to add to this.
The good news is, God can fix it all. The challenging news is, He chooses to let some of that happen through our own decisions. So therein is the quality to look for in others. Matter of fact, a quality to honestly ask of ourselves.
Here’s a great article along those lines that’s well worth the read: “The most overlooked characteristic of who you want to marry.“
My thanks to my wife* for showing me this article.
*The best person I know to have a good and a bad time with.
Related: A Good Bad Time – An Example
Roisin
What an amazing article Kevin!! Wow, it is just me or is this a rare characteristic we look for or think of when searching for our future mate? Left me with a lot to think about, thank goodness I’m still single and there’s still time to find such a person. Thanks for sharing all your insights with us!! Love your asterixed comment by the way 🙂
Kevin.Tam
It’s a great article and it’s because many of us don’t think of this point – so it definitely isn’t just you. I’m glad it will serve you well – pass it on! As for the asterisked comment, well…she’s the reason why I can write of such things 😉